Tag: Feelings

Controlling Your Anxiety

Between Covid 19, nationwide protests, and the new election cycle upon us, Stress and anxiety are on the rise…Not sure what to do? Try these tips to help you cope with it.

– Focus on things you can control (ie. get a good night’s sleep)
– Stay ‘virtually’ connected
– Be kind to yourself (ie. self care, exercise)
– Decrease screen time
– Help others (this will help you too)
– Get some fresh air, take a walk around your neighborhood
– Remind yourself to stay present (instead of a ‘what ifs’ takeover)
– Reach out for support from friends or a therapist when you need it.

As always, I am here if you or someone you love needs some assistance making it through these difficult times. You can reach me here, at (414) 881-7401, scott@alwaysabetteryou.com

Make The Most of Everyday!!

Not sure if we are going forward or backwards with the Covid-19 Virus? Remember this:

Love is NOT cancelled.

Taking care of yourself is NOT cancelled.

Hope is NOT cancelled.

Laughter is NOT cancelled.

Embrace all of the good you have in your life today.

What was the last thing that made you really laugh out loud?

Struggling with your anxiety through all of this? Please reach out here, at (414) 881-7401 or visit my FB Page:  https://www.facebook.com/AlwaysABetterYou/

Checking in

While staying in contact with friends and loved ones is important, asking “how are you?” can seem habitual. It’s is a perfectly normal way to begin a conversation or meeting and understood as a polite way to express concern, to which “I’m fine” or “Good” are socially acceptable responses. But is “how are you?” really an honest question that solicits an honest response (especially during a pandemic)?

Next time you’re checking in, try using one of these questions instead.

🔉 Have you been sleeping ok?
🔉 How are you taking care of yourself today?
🔉 Checking in on you! I’m here if you need me.
🔉 What habit have you started or stopped recently?
🔉 How have you managed stress?
🔉 How can I support you today?
🔉 Is there anything you need to want to talk about?

How are you?

We have gone and in some ways still dealing with Covid-19 to the death of Geroge Floyd and the aftermath, without catching our breath. For different reasons both have changed the texture of our lives.

How are you really feeling? Here’s your reminder to check in with yourself.

😁 I’m feeling great!

😊 I’m feeling pretty good!

😐 I’m doing alright, could be better.

😥 I’m starting to feel anxious, sad or upset.

😣I’m really struggling and need to reach out for support.

If you’re doing just alright, feeling anxious or struggling, give me a call or text me, so I can help. I can be reached at (414) 881-7401.

Scott @ Always A Better You

Goal For Right Now!!

Covid-19 has caused a lot of unknowns.
 
Am I going to be safe? Are my loved ones going to be safe?
 
How am I going to manage?
 
How long are they going to keep this Safe at Home going?
 
What am I going to do?
 
Are all of your thoughts about the future stressing you out?
 
Think about today. Right here. And right now. What can you do today that moves you in the right direction (or just makes you laugh)?

How Are You “Really” Feeling?

How are you feeling? How many times have we been asked that question? How many times have we asked it? How many times have we given or received an authentic answer? Most say, I’m good, great, and that’s also what we expect to hear in return. What if we really tuned in and named our “true emotion?”

When you can understand and name your emotions, something magical happens. The mere fact of acknowledgment creates the ability to shift. When we don’t have the words for our feelings, we’re not just lacking descriptive flourish. We’re lacking authorship of our own lives….taken from Permission to Feel from Dr. Mark Brackett.

Not saying you have to really have to share your true emotions, but it is important to really explore in any given time, especially when you are struggling, what emotion you are truly experiencing?

How are you feeling today?

If you are having troubles identifying your true emotions or have someone you care about that may need some assistance, please feel free to pass on my #, (414) 881-7401, or my web page. www.alwaysabetteryou.com

Feeling your feelings.

Being in a time of the unknown, how are you feeling right now? Deeper yet, why do you feel that way? To be able to label and understand one’s emotions is crucial in moving past them.  The book Permission To Feel by Marc Brackett, Ph.D. is an excellent resource.

Need help sorting through things? Let me know. I can be reached at (414) 881-7401

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